Crowned Unfiltered is where honesty lives. It is the place where we drop the polite nods, shake off the quiet pretending, and make room for real life. Life will make you laugh. It will make you cry. It will humble you, stretch you, and teach you. Just Asking was created for all of it.
Just asking…
My boyfriend refuses to watch movies with me because he says I fall asleep within the first ten minutes. I do not think I fall asleep that fast, but he says it is like trying to watch a movie with a newborn. How do I fix this without pretending I am wide awake when I am not?
Signed,
I’m Not Sleepy
Just asking…
I met someone that I care about deeply but recently found out he is in the middle of a divorce. It also turns out that he is married to one of my friends. I did not know at first, but now I do. How should I handle this? I care about him a lot and he clearly cares about me.
Signed,
I Caught Feelings by Accident
Just asking…
I have a coworker who keeps taking credit for my ideas in meetings. Every time I say something in private, she repeats it in public like it came straight from her mind. The team is starting to think she is the creative one and I am just following her lead. How do I shut this down without causing drama or looking petty?
Signed,
That’s My Stuff
Just asking…
My 25th high school reunion is coming up, and I am nervous because I have gained weight and I do not look like I used to. I almost want to skip it because I do not want people judging me. What should I do?
Signed,
Not Reunion Body Ready
Just asking…
My teenage daughter has reached a stage where she thinks she knows everything. Every suggestion turns into an eye roll, every conversation becomes a debate, and every boundary is a problem. I love her, but she is wearing me out. How do I guide her without losing my mind or my patience?
Signed,
Tired Mama Trying Not to Snap
Just asking…
I am married, and lately I have been feeling this nagging urge to snoop on my husband. Not going through his things, but feeling like I need to watch his behavior more closely. I do not want to become suspicious or insecure, but something in me keeps paying attention to every little thing. Is this normal, and what should I do?
Signed,
What’s in His Wallet
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